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HELLRAZOR

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Message Posted: May 25, 2012 8:59:48 PM

I'm definitely NOT an expert but I thought we(GBs) could all put our ideas
to make our lives a happier place!
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 12:14:34 AM

63pioneer, why do you say, 'None, it's too late for me!' What is too late?

You are still breathing, your heart is beating...


[Edited by: forty-niner at 5/17/2013 12:20:43 AM EST]
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63pioneer
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Message Posted: May 13, 2013 9:08:08 AM

None, it's too late for me!
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: May 9, 2013 12:49:32 PM

Don't be afraid to show weakness- vulnerability brings you close.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 5:00:16 AM

How about a couple of slices of toast too{:>)
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 4:57:27 AM

First thing in the morning a warm hug and a couple of kisses or make a pot of coffee, that would be what I would like, a pot of coffee.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 1:46:14 AM

Be true to yourself & you cannot be false to anyone.
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 1:31:24 AM

such great advice here.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Apr 9, 2013 1:00:32 PM

A successful marriage depends on 2 things : 1 -Finding the right person & 2-Being the right person.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Apr 9, 2013 12:33:00 AM

Have a good night and keep each other warm with the temp falling to -15c and the windchill feels like -27c you need some extra warmth. But you do not have to have an excuse to be together.
Have a good week Hell and company{>:)
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Apr 7, 2013 8:20:43 AM

Good morning Hellrazor and company!
Sunday Blessings and make it a family day, so important in todays hurry, hurry and hurry, never enough time, never enough sleep, never enough money. yet always more then enough Bills and more Bills, they never end.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Apr 3, 2013 12:08:32 PM

Always retain the ability to laugh at yourself.
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PhilT08
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Message Posted: Mar 31, 2013 6:54:25 PM

When she is talking to her friend and throws you under the bus for something you didn't know you did right in front of you just remember........she is going through menopause.

not sure if our marriage will survive this but I have been keeping my mouth shut and trying very hard to be understanding.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Mar 31, 2013 12:18:56 AM

Hellrazor, one plus one makes three, four, sometimes five and six.
My Gran told me to remember that the first baby comes at any time. All the rest usually take nine months.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Mar 31, 2013 12:14:55 AM

Go to church together, as Hellrazor posted and say a prayer to each other. Then go for coffee, while drinking coffee, look into each other's eyes, smile and hold hands. Then take her for a walk, remember to keep holding her hands and smile a lot.

Hellrazor and all buddies who post here, Easter Blessings.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 26, 2013 11:29:42 AM

Be sue to tell one another how much you love each other at every opportunity - or rest assured, someone else will!
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Daddio32118
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Message Posted: Mar 21, 2013 1:36:56 PM

communicate
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 21, 2013 11:21:43 AM

When you're right be silent, and when your wrong ,admit it straightaway.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 11:12:47 AM

Couples who pray together stay together.
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PhilT08
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Message Posted: Mar 7, 2013 7:55:31 PM

Take her out to eat once a week, things got rough and she complained she wanted to feel wanted again and wanted me to date her again.....I ignored that for a long time but gave in and went out to eat, what a change in just 3 weeks of going out to eat once a week.

I don't get why it is so important to have a QUOTE DATE but I am not even gonna ask. in my eyes if I wanted a date I would get a girlfriend.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 7, 2013 11:16:24 AM

Marriage is one plus one equals one.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 4, 2013 11:32:24 AM

To the husband:Hug & Squeeze her daily ...and if her daily wont go along with it,try the au pair!
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fpdad
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Message Posted: Mar 3, 2013 6:21:30 PM

Don't ignore the little problems!!

Just finishing up a divorce after 23yrs of marriage and in the end ignoring all the little problems became too much to overcome....
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Mar 3, 2013 4:00:58 PM

Send her flowers 4 no reason
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kylejetta13tdi
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Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 10:22:11 PM

Just say, "Yes Dear"
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drunkhabib
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Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 9:44:00 PM

keep a trustworthy friend on the side
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 6:37:56 PM

There is no more lovely ,friendly & charming relationship, communion,or company than a good marriage.
Martin Luther
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Feb 24, 2013 11:23:15 AM

Be best friends.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Feb 19, 2013 1:47:04 PM


Genesis 2:24

New International Version (NIV)


That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Feb 19, 2013 4:17:33 AM

in word or deed, express your love daily
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Feb 15, 2013 4:41:06 PM

Learn how to keep your mouth shut and when to
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Feb 11, 2013 9:46:04 PM

Don't go to bed angry. You never know...
Start each day with a smile & a kiss.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Feb 9, 2013 10:44:18 PM

From this day froward ,You will not walk alone.
My heart will your shelter ,
And my arms will be your home.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Feb 8, 2013 4:23:18 PM

Don't dig up old arguments, because chances are it will cause another argument. Let them die.
Good afternoon
Have a good weekend!

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MotherG
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Message Posted: Feb 5, 2013 10:08:12 PM

be honest
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Feb 1, 2013 9:23:58 AM

The giving must always exceed the taking.
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freedom27
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 11:23:13 AM

Shower together to save water.
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 10:28:15 AM

Keep a short account of wrongs.
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cherrylynn18
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 9:08:56 AM

My husband is the boss and he has my permission to say so.
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gravie314
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 7:31:11 AM

I tell everyone the secret to a good marriage is to die young.
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 3:24:06 AM

pray together
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 12:34:50 AM

Hell, love the picture of Ivy. What a good name for her.
For the people who have not heard, Hell's wife gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
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MotherG
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Message Posted: Jan 30, 2013 2:32:37 PM

never give up
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Message Posted: Jan 28, 2013 7:28:46 PM

Never miss a chance to say "Love"
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Jan 28, 2013 1:06:58 PM

Never stop holding hands.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 28, 2013 9:38:46 AM

Good morning
Monday, after another weekend hits the dust....
Do something special today, do it together.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 27, 2013 4:49:49 PM

Good Afternoon
Sunday Blessings make it a Family Day.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 26, 2013 12:14:45 PM

No matter how many years you are married or living together, you need to have timeout for yourself and time with just your other half it means no talking about the kid, what the house needs....
Just flirt with each other. I can't remember my own parents ever going out for a date and calling it a date, their generation never heard of that. Keep your relationship fresh go once a month on a date WITH EACH OTHER;)
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 25, 2013 3:24:23 PM

Got this off of topic 'Give it up for Lightbulbman!':
Man of the House

A husband had just finished reading a new book entitled, 'You Can Be THE Man of Your House'.
Finding new courage that he never knew he had, he stormed into the kitchen and announced to his wife, "From now on, you need to know that I am the man of this house, and my word is the 'Law.' You will prepare me a gourmet meal tonight, bring it to me , and when I am done eating my meal, you will clear the dishes and serve me a scrumptious dessert. After dinner, you are going to go upstairs with me, and we will make love the way I want! Afterwards, you are going to draw me a bath so I can relax. You will put on soothing music, wash my back, towel me dry, and bring me my robe. You will massage my feet and hands to relieve any last bit of tension in me, so that I can sleep like a baby ......Then, tomorrow, guess who's going to dress me and comb my hair?

The wife replied, "The funeral director would be my first guess, unless I have your ass cremated...."

Enjoy are Friday people.
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forty-niner
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Message Posted: Jan 24, 2013 12:00:59 AM

Watch the Super Bowl together and act as if it is your first date!
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HELLRAZOR
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Message Posted: Jan 20, 2013 4:35:09 AM

Together live each day like your last & each day like your first.
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