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SemiSteve

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Message Posted: Feb 8, 2013 4:35:30 PM

Yes.

It's dangerous and usually pointless. Life is worth more than needless risks.

The best way to deal with it is to just take your foot off the gas. Most impatient drivers quickly look for a way to pass and then they are gone.

If on a two-lane where no passing is allowed then just go the limit or a little under until you can find a place to turn off and then get right back on when it is clear. The time lost is worth the aggravation averted.

The life you save may be your own.
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RalphHightower
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Message Posted: May 21, 2013 6:04:56 AM

yes
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Quick68
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Message Posted: May 21, 2013 3:22:40 AM

Yes.
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carinthuist
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Message Posted: May 21, 2013 12:27:52 AM

No
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greydog13
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Message Posted: May 21, 2013 12:07:56 AM

yes, especially when it is some knothead in a semi tractor/trailer rig
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johnchase
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Message Posted: May 21, 2013 12:03:41 AM

No
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Moe86
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 11:38:44 PM

No.
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sweeteddy
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 2:59:00 PM

yes
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jrfan6767
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 2:30:41 PM

yes it does dont hit the brakes because they can see your brake lights come on instead pushor pull the parking/emergency brake. it really scares the hell out of them,or do like i do get beside another vehicle and match there speed and keep them pinned behind you
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diesel8888
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 10:54:40 AM

Yes
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dakine
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 9:27:26 AM

Yes
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ReddevilNO
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Message Posted: May 20, 2013 8:37:14 AM

Of Course It Does!!!!!!
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Moe86
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 7:29:06 PM

No.
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Titanic1985
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 5:52:51 PM

Hi rumbleseat,

Your comment was well said -- it could not be any clearer :-).

Take care - MGY
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dandeeman
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 5:45:28 PM

NOPE,SLAM ON THE BRAKES:)
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RalphHightower
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 6:08:40 AM

yes
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rumbleseat
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 5:15:31 AM

People have many reasons for tailgating.
There are, however, no excuses.
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Realakman
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 4:53:40 AM

Nope
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Jmac2008
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Message Posted: May 17, 2013 3:33:58 AM

yes
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gas_phil
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 11:54:48 PM

No
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geobmw
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 10:28:26 PM

no
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pawnkingfour
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 8:30:20 PM

Tailgaters are annoying, especially at night when the headlights of the car behind you are in FULL BRIGHT! dumbas@#$@!
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dandeeman
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 8:26:51 PM

NOPE,SLAM ON YOUR BRAKES:)
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DasAuto92
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 3:25:07 PM

One trick i learned many moons ago during my drivers course 101, was that if there was a tail-gater all you had to do was put on your headlights. In the times before day time running lights were mandatory, this gave the kook behind you thinking you were hitting the brakes.Man i miss those days...sigh.

[Edited by: DasAuto92 at 5/16/2013 3:26:07 PM EST]
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Moe86
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 12:21:41 PM

No.
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contiki
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 9:30:30 AM

Yes it bothers me.........
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jimmy544
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 9:29:48 AM

Yes it is very stupid and the driver will eventually rear end another car. In heavy traffic there will be idiots who do this and eventually some will pay the price for this.
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sandy40
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 7:30:53 AM

Yes when they are behind me.
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ReddevilNO
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Message Posted: May 16, 2013 7:07:50 AM

Yes!!!!! That is very dangerous.
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grampi47
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 11:32:43 AM

"If you're being tailgated and you pulled out in front of someone just to go slower than speed limit, it's time to take responsibility for the aggravation you caused"

There is NO situation that makes tailgating acceptable...yes it's very annoying when someone does this (I know, it happens to me a lot), but that still doesn't give you, me, or anyone else the right to tailgate...

[Edited by: grampi47 at 5/15/2013 11:37:04 AM EST]
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down2fumes
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 8:42:42 AM

No, it just helps me drive very slowly!
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ihredneck
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:49:35 AM

How about this?

If you're being tailgated and you pulled out in front of someone just to go slower than speed limit, it's time to take responsibility for the aggravation you caused

If someone came up behind you, then it's their responsibility and time to hope for a time to pass.

Please make it an option for them to pass also! As it only aggravates them more to make it hard to get around you.
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WES03
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:44:58 AM

Absolutely.
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russells350
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:41:18 AM

not when I am doing it.
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sandy40
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:13:41 AM

Yes Especially the followers.
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51stovi
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:11:05 AM

Yes! I will first give a quick tap of the brake to send a message and if that does not work, I start slowing down.
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FieroGT
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Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:03:28 AM

Agree, really dumb!
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Camaro_Joe
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Message Posted: May 3, 2013 11:51:20 AM

Yes, it is dangerous to at least both parties. Keep your distance.
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dgsteven
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Message Posted: May 3, 2013 4:26:33 AM

no
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herbiepopnecker
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 11:27:35 PM

No. I don't care what you do as long as your behind me!
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SemiSteve
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 10:11:56 PM

If you think tailgating is OK all it takes is one bad wreck or the loss of a loved one and you'll quit it.
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grampi47
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 8:41:56 AM

"ALWAYS. That is how my motorcycle got totaled. Lady driving too close and then run me over at a stoplight."

I would have a hard time not beating the crap out the person if that happened to me, even if it was a woman!

[Edited by: grampi47 at 5/2/2013 8:42:50 AM EST]
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BigGreen1
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 8:38:40 AM

ALWAYS. That is how my motorcycle got totaled. Lady driving too close and then run me over at a stoplight.
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puddy
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 8:33:50 AM

no
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rmw10rpw
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 8:23:00 AM

sometimes - depends on my mood
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down2fumes
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 7:25:47 AM

yes
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eyegotgas2
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 7:18:33 AM

Yes, if I pull up behind someone on the hwy It would be rude to not pass and I expect the same from someone coming up behind me.

I do alot of hwy driving and bunch ups of traffic should be avoided.
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SemiSteve
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Message Posted: May 2, 2013 7:13:39 AM

It's all part of the Me-First attitude. They figure they are in the midst of strangers so nobody who knows them will know they act like jerks. If they are annoying enough they might get somebody to pull out of their way so they can be first.

They think that by being a jerk they can be first.

Those of us who value life occasionally reinforce their bad habits so that's all it takes.

But that is what we must do if we prefer life and safety.

There is no 'teaching them a lesson.'

You could brake-check every tailgater who came up behind you and they would still keep coming.

Better to just let them go and make fools of themselves.

And they do.

Here's a condoling thought:

The first one to make it to the next red light has to sit there and wait the longest.

The Me-Firsts truly bring about their own punishment! And they are so clueless they don't even get it. They cause themselves the stress and frustration of being constantly stuck behind somebody; and they have to wait the longest at red lights.

What fools.

We are smart to let them go.
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jonjon57
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Message Posted: Apr 30, 2013 11:06:20 PM

Always
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Hemond
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Message Posted: Apr 30, 2013 10:43:45 PM

Tailgaters are chronically insecure. Thats why they snuggle up to your bumper. Often its women who do this.

I don't tolerate tailgaters. I got tailgated tonight. I pulled right over, stopped and let her roar past. Then I got back on my way. Took 5 seconds to eliminate the aggravation.

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Norm1947
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Message Posted: Apr 30, 2013 1:49:47 PM

Of course. Isn't it frustrating to everyone.
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