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Saab93turbo Veteran Author Washington Posts:485 Points:85,235 Joined:Dec 2012	Message Posted: Feb 19, 2013 4:31:20 PM Ignore Saab93turbo Report Abuse How do you respond to people asking for money at the gas station? Refuse? Give them money? Recently, one woman asked me for money saying that she ran out of gas. Her big SUV was at the pump so I presume it still has a little gas in it. She seemed like a character to be suspicious of so I declined. Once someone asked for a loan and said they would paypal me. I accepted their plea and they did paypal me the money back.

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How do you respond to people asking for money at the gas station?

Refuse? Give them money?

Recently, one woman asked me for money saying that she ran out of gas. Her big SUV was at the pump so I presume it still has a little gas in it. She seemed like a character to be suspicious of so I declined.

Once someone asked for a loan and said they would paypal me. I accepted their plea and they did paypal me the money back.

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forestghost07 Veteran Author Miami Posts:292 Points:4,000 Joined:Apr 2013	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 2:43:22 PM Ignore forestghost07 Report Abuse "I dont carry cash, now MOVE ON"
RadarIN Champion Author Indiana Posts:5,102 Points:1,058,920 Joined:Mar 2009	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 7:21:44 AM Ignore RadarIN Report Abuse get a job
valby Champion Author Massachusetts Posts:2,916 Points:428,140 Joined:Jan 2005	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 7:00:20 AM Ignore valby Report Abuse Never encountered this.
QueenMother Champion Author New Hampshire Posts:7,398 Points:2,144,410 Joined:May 2006	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 6:36:05 AM Ignore QueenMother Report Abuse What part of NO don't you understand? The N or the O?
Seekingone Champion Author Louisville Posts:3,527 Points:968,150 Joined:Aug 2006	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 6:35:15 AM Ignore Seekingone Report Abuse i say no
cv Champion Author Raleigh Posts:15,211 Points:3,267,555 Joined:Oct 2003	Message Posted: May 19, 2013 4:22:14 AM Ignore cv Report Abuse Sorry, I wish you good luck.
steffy628 Champion Author Pennsylvania Posts:1,776 Points:451,250 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 5:00:51 PM Ignore steffy628 Report Abuse Get a job
Firedawg99 Sophomore Author California Posts:103 Points:412,720 Joined:Aug 2011	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 2:26:58 PM Ignore Firedawg99 Report Abuse just tell them i don't have extra cash.
MikeCapeCoral Champion Author Cape Coral Posts:1,938 Points:420,820 Joined:Feb 2012	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 1:45:55 AM Ignore MikeCapeCoral Report Abuse Its called pan handling here and is illegal. With a badge in my pocket I just keep on walking.
gus8441 Champion Author Baltimore Posts:2,119 Points:443,800 Joined:Feb 2012	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 12:20:25 AM Ignore gus8441 Report Abuse i literally walk right around them and ignore
estroh Champion Author Indiana Posts:3,614 Points:731,775 Joined:May 2011	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 12:16:29 AM Ignore estroh Report Abuse In my world or area this type of gas station does not exist
huey715 Sophomore Author Texas Posts:151 Points:209,625 Joined:Aug 2012	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 9:32:14 PM Ignore huey715 Report Abuse Just put all I have in the tank
mnrick041 Champion Author Twin Cities Posts:14,311 Points:1,369,885 Joined:Jun 2009	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:38:23 PM Ignore mnrick041 Report Abuse Never had this happen to me.
blckwolf Veteran Author North Carolina Posts:290 Points:75,020 Joined:Nov 2008	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:27:18 PM Ignore blckwolf Report Abuse Usually I refuse. If they have a car, kids, and are obviously desperate or upset about the situation, then I'll help if I can, but not with money. Otherwise, I just say sorry, I don't have any cash (a big reason I use only my debit/ATM card at the pump - it reinforces the idea).
Boyrr Champion Author Allentown Posts:15,186 Points:3,164,855 Joined:May 2004	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 7:03:10 PM Ignore Boyrr Report Abuse Hit the road Jack!
krazkar Veteran Author Calgary Posts:289 Points:276,435 Joined:May 2012	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 6:25:55 PM Ignore krazkar Report Abuse I don't recall anyone asking me for money at a gas station.
mybigtruck Sophomore Author San Jose Posts:136 Points:199,875 Joined:Oct 2009	Message Posted: May 15, 2013 4:19:25 PM Ignore mybigtruck Report Abuse I just say I can't help them. If they insist, I say I only have credit card. But the new creative excuse is a dude walking around with an empty gas can asking for change so he can fill it.
PassmyGas Veteran Author North Carolina Posts:299 Points:663,680 Joined:Jul 2010	Message Posted: Apr 26, 2013 5:33:38 AM Ignore PassmyGas Report Abuse sorry, don't have any to spare
BulletRC Sophomore Author Mobile Posts:160 Points:259,045 Joined:Jun 2012	Message Posted: Apr 26, 2013 5:20:20 AM Ignore BulletRC Report Abuse I have gotten to the point, I just say NO. The last time I got approached at the gas station, this guy pulls up to the pump just about the time I parked to go inside. He approached me holding up a sign that said, he could not talk & could I spare some money so he could get gas. I just shook my head no. About 15 years ago, I was in Houston, Texas, this radio station interviewed this panhandler. He said that he could collect about $400 dollars a day. That ended my charity to all.
gus8441 Champion Author Baltimore Posts:2,119 Points:443,800 Joined:Feb 2012	Message Posted: Apr 26, 2013 12:07:32 AM Ignore gus8441 Report Abuse i tell them to screw off
estroh Champion Author Indiana Posts:3,614 Points:731,775 Joined:May 2011	Message Posted: Apr 26, 2013 12:05:58 AM Ignore estroh Report Abuse Of the many gas stations I have been to this type of gas station does not exist
jonjon57 Champion Author Raleigh Posts:2,447 Points:634,910 Joined:May 2011	Message Posted: Apr 25, 2013 11:38:39 PM Ignore jonjon57 Report Abuse Drive off
fire025 Veteran Author Michigan Posts:489 Points:584,725 Joined:Dec 2010	Message Posted: Apr 25, 2013 8:36:41 PM Ignore fire025 Report Abuse Never had anybody ask at a gas station
smile100 All-Star Author Illinois Posts:617 Points:1,673,600 Joined:Jul 2003	Message Posted: Apr 25, 2013 6:26:22 PM Ignore smile100 Report Abuse No!!!
bluenvoy Champion Author Nashville Posts:14,977 Points:1,877,640 Joined:Oct 2005	Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 12:42:56 PM Ignore bluenvoy Report Abuse Try not to buy gas there again.
metalhat73 Veteran Author Wilmington Posts:374 Points:241,605 Joined:May 2012	Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 12:39:24 PM Ignore metalhat73 Report Abuse Never had anyone ask for money at gas station.
inventorymaster Champion Author KW Posts:1,602 Points:513,245 Joined:Jul 2010	Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 11:43:19 AM Ignore inventorymaster Report Abuse ignore
stlhawk All-Star Author St. Louis Posts:766 Points:405,125 Joined:Dec 2011	Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 11:27:04 AM Ignore stlhawk Report Abuse Case by case for me. Almost always no though.
theyrobus Veteran Author Ontario Posts:345 Points:13,115 Joined:Jun 2012	Message Posted: Mar 9, 2013 6:05:42 PM Ignore theyrobus Report Abuse never had anyone ask for money
Patty7841 All-Star Author Boston Posts:701 Points:127,790 Joined:Sep 2012	Message Posted: Mar 9, 2013 1:25:31 PM Ignore Patty7841 Report Abuse I do not have enough money for my own gas tank; if someone was driving a tank, such as an SUV, they have the money to spend on gas. I would never lend anyone money, as you will never see it again. As far as the loan you gave someone and they paid you back via paypal, you took a huge risk. I do not know how much it was for, but I would never do it again. You were lucky this time.
grim_farva Champion Author Kansas Posts:1,500 Points:329,625 Joined:Jun 2008	Message Posted: Mar 9, 2013 1:03:19 PM Ignore grim_farva Report Abuse ignore them
TULL Champion Author Fresno Posts:1,614 Points:274,255 Joined:Sep 2004	Message Posted: Mar 9, 2013 12:46:30 PM Ignore TULL Report Abuse Most often they don't ask me. When asked I say No
sagnat Champion Author Riverside Posts:1,159 Points:309,235 Joined:Jun 2012	Message Posted: Mar 6, 2013 5:18:46 AM Ignore sagnat Report Abuse Generally, I put it on my gas card and tell the panhandler I had to use my card as I have no cash.
All_Wheelin Veteran Author Twin Cities Posts:488 Points:502,510 Joined:Mar 2011	Message Posted: Mar 6, 2013 12:36:38 AM Ignore All_Wheelin Report Abuse Haven't had it much at a station, but the general policy I follow is call 911 - it is illegal, and often enough just a front to get you to get your wallet out for a grap-and-run or worse.
ace12012 Champion Author Phoenix Posts:1,675 Points:325,885 Joined:Apr 2012	Message Posted: Mar 5, 2013 7:27:58 PM Ignore ace12012 Report Abuse have not been asked. [Edited by: ace12012 at 3/5/2013 7:29:01 PM EST]
BartandLisa Champion Author Newfoundland Posts:2,150 Points:420,375 Joined:Feb 2012	Message Posted: Mar 5, 2013 7:03:32 PM Ignore BartandLisa Report Abuse Have never been approached for money at a gas station
grim_farva Champion Author Kansas Posts:1,500 Points:329,625 Joined:Jun 2008	Message Posted: Mar 1, 2013 9:13:07 AM Ignore grim_farva Report Abuse ignore them [Edited by: grim_farva at 3/1/2013 9:13:26 AM EST]
OceanArcher Champion Author Mississippi Posts:5,713 Points:1,329,350 Joined:May 2004	Message Posted: Mar 1, 2013 9:03:15 AM Ignore OceanArcher Report Abuse Had another "honey" hit me up for gas at the pump last night. Offered to contact the local rescue mission for her, and was told that "she doesn't accept charity" ... HUH ?????
giwan Veteran Author Michigan Posts:490 Points:89,405 Joined:Aug 2009	Message Posted: Feb 26, 2013 7:19:38 AM Ignore giwan Report Abuse Pull out the gun and tell them to move along
vikings80 All-Star Author South Dakota Posts:781 Points:110,065 Joined:Aug 2008	Message Posted: Feb 26, 2013 7:14:37 AM Ignore vikings80 Report Abuse no
DanFMA Champion Author Massachusetts Posts:1,116 Points:1,073,460 Joined:Apr 2008	Message Posted: Feb 26, 2013 6:54:34 AM Ignore DanFMA Report Abuse Say no.
RNF Champion Author Indiana Posts:7,105 Points:2,874,940 Joined:Jun 2004	Message Posted: Feb 26, 2013 6:21:01 AM Ignore RNF Report Abuse Refuse.
Jef4ers Rookie Author Dayton Posts:98 Points:2,300 Joined:Feb 2013	Message Posted: Feb 25, 2013 1:08:03 PM Ignore Jef4ers Report Abuse If you look around and can see that they appear to have a real problem (forgot wallet etc)then help them out. Some scams involve a frail women wanting you to buy her a gallon of gas and then taking her to her car......where a gang of 'criminal minds' are waiting to reward you. A good deal of the dopers that are on a mix of battery acid paint thinner and cough syrup are not in the mood or mind to just get flipped off. Beware! If it does not feel right....go into the station and call the cops. Most towns have organizations to help folks out and the go between is the police.
traffic cop Champion Author Boston Posts:1,248 Points:536,560 Joined:Oct 2004	Message Posted: Feb 25, 2013 12:03:36 PM Ignore traffic cop Report Abuse "I've already given away my extra money."
RadarIN Champion Author Indiana Posts:5,102 Points:1,058,920 Joined:Mar 2009	Message Posted: Feb 24, 2013 6:57:14 AM Ignore RadarIN Report Abuse Get a job!!!!!!!!!!!
cv Champion Author Raleigh Posts:15,211 Points:3,267,555 Joined:Oct 2003	Message Posted: Feb 24, 2013 6:46:05 AM Ignore cv Report Abuse Just decline the request.
tdioiler All-Star Author Detroit Posts:892 Points:420,690 Joined:Jul 2011	Message Posted: Feb 23, 2013 12:34:07 PM Ignore tdioiler Report Abuse I like Hemond's tack, but really to see if they scrunch up or are eager to say yes. Those with the yes, Absolutely nothing more from me. Those who scrunch, they might be telling the real story. Those that walk away were looking to fulfill their educational expenses on panhandling.
gvan Champion Author Chicago Posts:21,541 Points:2,837,265 Joined:Dec 2004	Message Posted: Feb 23, 2013 9:27:11 AM Ignore gvan Report Abuse I have a different perspective about some of these "unfortunate people" after learning about seminars you can attend to learn how to panhandle.
Dennis783 Champion Author Des Moines Posts:13,599 Points:2,704,860 Joined:Sep 2005	Message Posted: Feb 23, 2013 8:18:46 AM Ignore Dennis783 Report Abuse never had it happen
Banjoe Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:4,258 Points:615,240 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Feb 23, 2013 7:39:17 AM Ignore Banjoe Report Abuse If they're wearing a mask, I hand over my credit card and say Pump #3. If they're street urchins looking for their next fix, I pass. Fascinating folks with fascinating lines will actually get a buck or two but it's got to be real entertainment or truly inventive. The latest dude with a sign that said "Need Beer" actually got a quarter just for the smile he put on my face.